Summer House

Miami Herald — Most everybody in this neighborhood coffee haunt has been hooked on something. The high school dropout with beauty-pageant looks has been fending off a heroin habit for two decades. The former football player says he is clean now after years of popping pain pills. Santa Claus succumbed to alcohol.

Nineteen of the fallen are here tonight for therapy and healing, for a second — or a third or fourth — chance, hoping to reclaim a piece of their lives. They form a circle in the pebble garden behind KoffeeOkee, which is owned by Harold and Dawn Jonas, former users who now help others kick drug and alcohol habits and answer the question: What now?

A resort on the Atlantic in Palm Beach County, Delray Beach has another, less obvious civic profile: Florida’s sobriety capital. Like Hazelden in Minnesota and Utah’s Cirque Lodge and the communities that surround them, it is a place to dry out, clean up. Its recovery community is spirited and multilayered, a dense mesh of dozens of treatment facilities, counseling centers and residential housing that gives addicts a wide-reaching chance for recovery and permanent lifestyle change.

This is where people start over. And sometimes stay.

”You want to be here if you are struggling with an addiction,” says Anna O’Connell, 43, who has been in and out of detox for crack cocaine, heroin and alcohol over the past 20 years and attends therapy sessions at KoffeeOkee. “This is the closest thing to family; this is where you feel safe.”

Treatment for addictions that the medical community now accepts as chronic diseases ranges from private $10,000-a-month treatment centers to free coffee, counseling and karaoke at java houses such as this one, which hosts formal therapy sessions twice a week and informal gatherings even more often.

MANY, FROM ALL OVER

The size of South Florida’s recovery community is difficult to estimate because only one layer — facilities with residential treatment beds — is licensed by the state. Delray Beach alone offers more than 1,200 beds in transitional houses — a second layer — according to the South County Recovery Residence Association in Delray, which monitors halfway residences.

Every week in Delray, about 5,000 addicts attend 12-step meetings that stretch from 7 a.m. to 11 p.m. At Crossroads Club, a squat stucco complex off Lake Ida Road, about 700 people walk through the doors every day to attend 120 meetings aimed at a swath of needs, from treatment for cocaine addiction to obsessive cluttering, says Susan Miller, executive director, a recovering alcoholic.

Addicts arrive from as far away as Oregon and Rhode Island and from as nearby as South Beach. They face daunting odds: Relapse rates range from 40 to 90 percent, depending on the client’s dedication and will power, sustained treatment, and follow-up care, according to the National Institute on Drug Abuse.

”My parents sent me here to try to turn my life around,” Rani Canosa, 21, a pretty, petite college dropout offers one Monday night at KoffeeOkee. “Alcohol made me feel good. I would be really, really happy, then really, really sad, then just miserable.”

Canosa, from a Baltimore suburb, started drinking seriously as an 18-year-old freshman in college. Soon she could consume a 12-pack of beer and a half-bottle of vodka in a two-hour stretch.

She had tried treatment centers in Maryland and Pennsylvania but returned home only to relapse once she was back among friends and familiar haunts.

Canosa has been in Delray Beach since Aug. 29, out of treatment at the Wellness Resource Center in nearby Boca Raton since Feb. 5. She lives in a halfway house and works as a barista at KoffeeOkee.

”The truth is, if I was home, I would be drunk or looking to get drunk,” she says softly, never making eye contact. “I actually want to be here.”

COLLECTIVE STRUGGLE

But what distinguishes this vibrant recovery community from similar places elsewhere, is a growing sober social infrastructure, an informal network of places for people to mingle without the colossal temptations of drugs and alcohol.

”Delray Beach is a microcosm of the various layers of the recovery process,” says Howard Lerner, clinical director of the Addiction Treatment Program at South Miami Hospital. “Those struggling belong to a fraternity.”

Here, even in the midst of fighting for sobriety, addicts can go dancing at popular clubs that hold sober nights, sing karaoke at a sober coffee house, listen to live music at a sober juke joint, call in to recovery radio shows, roar into the sunset with a sober motorcycle club and pray at a Bible study just for them.

”The struggle with an addiction can be forever,” says Harold Jonas, a mental health counselor. “So all we really want is for people to be healthy and to laugh and have hope and be part of the world, not just the recovery community.”

The collective sobriety struggle here is no longer anonymous. Recovering addicts live among ”normies” and often work on Atlantic Avenue, the city’s glittering ribbon of sidewalk cafes and boutiques and galleries.

”When you are on this journey, it’s incredibly important to feel like you are not alone, to see and be around people just like you,” says nattily-dressed Jonah Yolman, now 22 months on the clean side of a wicked crack-cocaine addiction.

Yolman, 29, sitting in a Starbucks on Atlantic Avenue, quietly acknowledges two people ordering coffee who are in one of the dozens of 12-step anonymous programs. He talks casually about the familiar identifying signs of people in recovery: the relentless smoking and coffee drinking, the trails of cigarette butts and empty coffee cups and candy wrappers. And the most obvious sign: people tightly clutching books with dark covers, their 12-step guides.

”We are everywhere, living and working in this city,” says Yolman, a counselor at a local treatment facility who promotes two sober nights at area clubs. He and a partner are also launching a similar sober club night in August at a South Beach club (sobernightlife.com).

“People come here and enjoy the weather, the beaches, low-key atmosphere and try to start over.”

NATIONAL REPUTATION

In some ways, Delray’s recovery community draws its inspiration from a small, rural town in Minnesota that over the years became a magnet for recovering addicts, from marquee rock stars like Eric Clapton to the anonymous souls who came looking for peace and order.

Since 1949, addicts have famously flocked to Hazelden, which started as a farmhouse retreat in Center City for men working their way through programs based on the 12-step principles.

Over the years, teams of doctors, counselors and chaplains developed a holistic approach to rehab now emulated worldwide.

More than three decades ago, Delray’s first sober houses opened for people making the transition from residential care to independent living. The houses — a yellow clapboard with a sweeping porch on one street, a peach bungalow with a white-picket fence on another — are sprinkled within neighborhoods, around public squares, near churches.

Rents range from $125 to $175 weekly for a room and access to kitchens and family areas. Most landlords require random drug tests, and some perform bed checks or monitor whether their clients have reported to work.

Two years ago, Crossroads Centre in Antigua, a drug-treatment program founded by Eric Clapton, opened in the city. And in February, Lecreshia Hall, a Boca Raton psychiatrist, started Hallway of Life Recovery Center, a faith-based, 28-bed transitional facility for women, on a quiet residential street near downtown.

”When I did the research to find the best place to open, Delray Beach kept coming up,” says Hall, who leads Bible study on Tuesdays. “The idea of our center is to teach our clients how they can use the Bible to help in recovery.”

But Delray Beach’s national reputation as a recovery community has been unsettling for some residents.

”We don’t mind taking care of the people living here, but we don’t particularly like people coming from all over the country or the world to recover,” says City Manager David Harden. “But it’s a fact of life, and so we have tried to be supportive of the community.”

Harden says Delray Beach gives money each year to the Drug Abuse Foundation of Palm Beach County, the county’s oldest chemical-dependency treatment and prevention center. The Commission also sold city property to Crossroads Club several years ago, allowing the center to expand.

Over the years, residents have complained to city officials about the lack of security and control at some sober houses. Owners need only a landlord permit to run them, a reality that makes strict regulation difficult.

Jonas, who heads the South County association and runs the coffee shop, says problems stem mostly from unscrupulous landlords who hope to turn quick profits at the expense of fragile tenants and the surrounding neighborhood.

”You got some of these operators who don’t manage the property or the tenants, then they put the people out and leave them homeless,” Jonas says. “There are some operators we would all be better off without.”

FINDING SOLACE

Jonas came to Florida 20 years ago full of reasons to give up. But with the help of his father, who put him in a West Palm Beach treatment center, he cleaned up and stayed put.

A slight guy with a thick mustache and a thicker Philadelphia accent, Jonas sits in the lounge of his coffee shop one afternoon rattling off his story with sobriety’s detachment and confidence.

Pot by 13. Then acid and speed and cocaine. Graduation to alcohol. Bottomed out in the injection world of cocaine and heroin.

Jonas entered rehab in 1987. He married Dawn, a recovering cocaine addict (they met in a 12-step group), and went back to school, earning an online master’s degree in counseling psychology from Antioch University and a doctorate in addiction studies from International University in St. Kitts.

”You come out of a situation like that broken and with very little to hold on to,” Jonas says. ‘You come out of treatment and you say, `Now what?’ ”

So Jonas and his wife — who recently celebrated her 22nd clean year — began working to answer this huge question, working to help define what life after treatment really means.

In 2000, they launched sober.com, a Web clearinghouse for 30,000 recovery programs nationwide. And for 10 years, he operated a recovery residence in Delray Beach. She runs a home for women in recovery.

Two years ago, they opened KoffeeOkee, in many ways ground zero for the recovery community. Inside is a cozy mix of velvet wingback chairs and bistro tables and a small cafe offering every coffee, tea and juice imaginable but absolutely no alcohol. The walls are covered with bulletin boards offering testimonials, treatment and housing ads, and calendars outlining the month’s sober activities.

A piano sits in the corner with a dried white rose on top, a delicate memorial to Valerie, a drug counselor who died a year ago.

Of an overdose.

Des Moines Register — Monitoring your teen’s activities is an important deterrent to drug use.
 

Research shows that more teens begin using tobacco, alcohol, and marijuana between spring break and the summer months than any other time.
 

Parents can play an important role in helping their teen stay drug-free by setting clear rules, knowing who their friends are, and by having open and honest discussions about drugs.
 

Q. Why is summer a risky time for teens?
 

A. Summer is a time that often has little structure for teens. This can lead to boredom.

According to a study by the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse, teens who report they are "often bored" are 50 percent more likely to smoke, drink, get drunk and use illegal drugs than teens who aren’t.

Another risk factor for teens during summer is having friends who use drugs. Teens are more likely to feel pressured to experiment with drugs if their friends do.

The summer months also have more unsupervised time, which can lead to involvement in risky behavior.

Q. My teen will be unsupervised at home for most of the summer. What can I do to make sure he stays out of trouble?

A. There are steps you can take to ensure your teen stays safe and healthy.

- Lean on other responsible adults in your neighborhood. Network with other adults in your community to build a safe environment for young people.

- Use technology to your advantage. Teens these days use many forms of communication technology including e-mail, cell phones, text messaging and instant messaging, to name a few. Use these forms of technology to check in with your teen each day.

- Get to know your teen’s friends. They can be an important factor in your teen’s decisions about alcohol, tobacco and other drugs.

- Plan regular check-in times throughout the day with your teen.

- Find supervised activities in your community that your teen enjoys. Youth who are involved in constructive, supervised activities during non-school hours are less likely to use drugs. Talk with your child about what she would like to do during the summer and see if you can find a summer program in your community.

Q. How do I start the discussion about drug use with my teen?

A. Teens need to be educated by their parents about drug abuse, expectations in the home, and consequences. This can be a difficult conversation to have but the steps below can help guide you though the process.

1. Talk with your partner to agree on rules and consequences if your teen does use drugs. This information should then be shared with your teen so he knows and understands the expectations.

2. Practice ahead of time what you are going to say to your teen. Be prepared for various reactions from your teen and practice how you will react.

3. Make an agreement with yourself to not get upset or angry. Stay as calm as possible. Remember, you are the parent and you are in charge. Be kind and direct in your statements to your child. Know that you are doing the right thing.

Q. What are some signs to watch for if my teen is using drugs?

A. Look for signs of depression, withdrawal from friends and family, carelessness with grooming, or hostility. Also ask yourself, is your teen doing well in school, getting along with friends, and taking part in regular activities? Some additional signs to look for are:

- Increased secrecy about possessions or activities.

- Increase in borrowing money.

- Unexplained injuries.

- Impaired short-term memory.

- Items or money missing from home.

- Illness, shakiness, or tremors.

Q. What other resources are available?
 

A. A great resource for parents is called "The Anti-Drug," which can be found at www.theantidrug.com. This Web site has a wealth of information for parents about drug education, support from other parents striving to keep their teens drug-free, and helpful articles and advice from experts in the parenting and substance abuse prevention field.

(CNN) — The transitional year between child and teenager is crucial in fighting teen drug use, according to a new survey.

The research by the Columbia University’s National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse found age 12 to 13 to be a time when children are increasingly exposed to drugs and often moving away from the control and influence of their parents.

"In no other year do teens’ perceptions and attitudes shift so markedly," the center said.

The survey found a 13-year-old is three times more likely than a 12-year-old to know how to buy drugs. It also found about twice as many 13-year-olds do not have adult supervision at home after school.

"America’s children have been crying out for help and not enough people are listening," said the center’s president, Joseph A. Califano Jr.

The annual survey of 1,000 teen-agers, 824 teachers and 822 principals found for the fourth year, teens believed drugs were their most pressing problem. In all, 39 percent of 17-year-olds said they drank alcohol, 23 percent said they smoked in the last 30 days, and 41 percent said they have smoked marijuana.

Teenagers who used one substance such as alcohol were more likely to use another such as marijuana, and marijuana uses were more likely to drink.

The survey documented a wide gap between the students and principals in perceived drug use in their schools. More than half of teen-agers and 41 percent of teachers said the drug problem at their schools is getting worse, but just 15 percent of principals saw an increasing problem.

Eighteen percent of principals, compared with 78 percent of teen students, said their schools were not drug-free.

"Principals make monkeys of themselves as they reveal their see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil posture," said Califano, a former secretary of Health, Education and Welfare in the Carter administration.

The survey did find some hopeful statistics. It reported teen-agers who attend religious services are less likely to smoke cigarettes or marijuana or spend time with those who do.

It also found teen-agers who have never smoked marijuana are more likely to heed their parent’s opinions.

WASHINGTON (AP) — Sure, exercise is good for your waistline, your heart, your bones — but might it also help prevent addiction to drugs or alcohol?

There are some tantalizing clues that physical activity might spur changes in the brain to do just that.

Now the government is beginning a push for hard research to prove it.

This is not about getting average people to achieve the so-called runner’s high, a feat of pretty intense athletics.

Instead, the question is just how regular physical activity of varying intensity — dancing, bicycling, swimming, tae kwan do — might affect mood, academic performance, even the very reward systems in the brain that can get hijacked by substance abuse.

What first caught the attention of National Institute on Drug Abuse chief Dr. Nora Volkow: A study found tweens and teens who reported exercising daily were half as likely to smoke as their sedentary counterparts, and 40 percent less likely to experiment with marijuana.

Volkow knows — from her own 6-mile daily runs and from her scientific experiments — that the brain literally likes physical activity. Exercise seems to invigorate neurochemicals that sense and reinforce pleasure.

"In children, it’s innate," she notes. "Children want to move."

But the nation’s children are becoming more sedentary, as illustrated by the obesity epidemic, "screen time" replacing outdoor play and a drop in school P.E. And as youngsters approach adolescence, the run around the yard that used to be fun too often becomes a chore — the dreaded jog around the school track or the nagging to get off the couch. The sedentary teen turns into the sedentary adult.

"Why do we lose the ability to experience pleasure from physical activity?" asks Volkow.

Last week she brought more than 100 specialists in exercise and neurobiology to a two-day conference to explore physical activity’s potential in fighting substance abuse, and announced $4 million in new research grants to help.

Drug treatment programs often include exercise, partly to keep people distracted from their cravings, but there’s been little formal research on the effects.

The best evidence: Brown University took smokers to the gym three times a week and found adding the exercise to a smoking-cessation program doubled women’s chances of successfully kicking the habit. The quitters who worked out got an extra benefit: They gained half as much weight as women who managed to quit without exercising, says lead researcher Dr. Bess Marcus.

She now is working with the YMCA on a larger, NIDA-funded study to prove the benefit.

Marcus cautions that people trying to kick an addiction have a powerful incentive to exercise. Could that possibly translate into prevention? Among the clues:

– Rats were less likely to ingest amphetamines if their cages had running wheels, suggesting exercise stimulated a reward pathway in the brain to leave them less vulnerable to the drug’s rush.

– In people, exercise acts as a mild antidepressant and relieves stress. Depression, anxiety and stress increase risk of alcoholism, smoking or drug abuse.

– Volkow is intrigued that attention deficit disorder and obesity both involve problems with the brain chemical dopamine, one system that drugs hijack to create addiction.

– Baby monkeys who don’t play enough in childhood have problems controlling aggression when they’re older. The most aggressive tend to have defects involving the feel-good brain chemical serotonin — and binge-drink when researchers offer them alcohol.

– Back to rats, physical activity increases production of growth factors and stem cells in key brain regions important for learning and mood; increases formation of blood vessels; and strengthens communication networks between brain cells.

Together, that’s far too little research to know if exercise really matters for substance abuse, scientists at the National Institutes of Health meeting cautioned.

But, a few studies of school-age children suggest physical activity predicts better performance on math, verbal and other tests — and better school performance in turn is linked to lower risk for substance abuse.

And getting sedentary seniors moving improves brain function — research aimed at preventing dementia, not drug abuse, although the improvement is in an area that in younger people is linked to risky decision-making.

A caveat: If your own youth includes memories of parties with beer-guzzling athletes, well, the research concurs. A major study that tracks adolescent risk behaviors found that by 12th grade, exercise offers no protection against binge-drinking.

"Now the kids who exercise the most actually drink the most," says Dr. Lloyd Johnston of the University of Michigan. It may have to do with the celebratory nature of team sports, or getting revved for college — or, other researchers suggested, even that competition is to blame.